my whole life...

up to this point I have been waiting for the chance to say "I told you so."  now hopefully I go, and I make it happen. 

...

I wouldn't mind dying young. at my most beautiful.

New Blog!

visit me: Lindsey Frenzy

He sayz: "read Lindsey's new blog!"

I have a new project on the way, my new blog entitled Lindsey Frenzy. This will be a spin off of the L word but is going to take a light-hearted approach to my life, the things I like, product reviews, funny stuff.

But not to worry, the L word shall remain as my creative writing space. So don't forget about us!

Tune in! Coming soon!

re-cap

Last year was a "coming of age year" for me. I met lots of new people, spent time in different social groups, dated several people, and generally broadened my horizons. I made some crazy decisions that thankfully did not end up hurting me. I came up from the depths only to find myself re-visiting them. I started the journey of figuring things out and so far it has been a twisting, rocky, and interesting road. 

a few things I realized/ learned from these experiences that I am now just starting to process are: 

- first and foremost, that i need to love myself. really. I am confident and makin' it on my own!

- don't be blinded by the bling. money, power and random fancy trips across the country aren't always going to serve you well. I'd rather sit in the company of someone that I like at a coffee shop or at home than in a baller suite at the palms with someone I can't stand. 

- getting drunk is only fun if you have a D.D.

- weed out the losers that accumulate in your life. I have realized the power in surrounding myself with genuine, true, healthy people. If someone gets weird say goodbye.

- who the hell cares about being cool. I've never really cared about being cool but I have been around A LOT of people who do. Just be yourself and don't try to fit some social group's definition of suuper awesome. lameee. DON'T be a "hanger on." Rock your own shit. 

- smoking is bad for your health. don't do it. period.

Some of these are funny and some are serious. But honestly they are my lessons and my guidelines that I want to stick with. I'm happy I've learned so much and am able to start out on a new path! 

Cheers!

~Linz

right now..

there is so much to say that there is nothing at all. 

Someday...

I'm going to have a bedroom like this:

and a bathroom like this:

and a living room like this:

A Girl Can Dream!

me today

I am:

complicated, wretched, wonderfully inspired, caught in the threads of my mind's images; hurting, yearning, messy, solitary, reeling, coming to grips with a reality all my own. 

squirrel inspiration

Sometimes I find meaning and inspiration in the strangest places. Today sitting at my desk, I looked out my window and watched a squirrel climbing up one of the tall pine trees behind my apartment. In her mouth were a bunch of leaves, though I must admit I didn't know that squirrels built nests in trees? Anyway, a few leaves fell out of her mouth down to the ground. She paused, turned around for a second and then continued up the tree with the remaining leaves. This somehow how reminded me that it is important to continue to move forward in life even when you encounter some setbacks. Most of the time it isn't worth it to revisit the past over and over again but instead take what you have and press onward. 

short thoughts

And then I knew. I knew laying there in my bed, rain beating down on the roof overhead. I knew I would be alone for a while. I told myself, "get used to it. You would rather be the distraction than the fool." No I would never be the fool.  But the distraction is alone on rainy nights. So here I am alone. And I wouldn't have it any other way. alone. That's where i'll be. Because you know what, alone is safer.

tra la la

these are some of my favorite lines from songs. most are simple but just so right-

"color the coast with your smile it's the most genuine thing I've ever seen."

"It's so hard to go into the city cause you want say, hey I love you to everybody."

"am i really all things that are outside of me?"

"... still I'm perfect, it must be you cause now it's over."

"don't burn the day."

"I sang instead when other girls only cried."

"when my loneliness is through I'm gonna find another you."

"my words mimicked his but beneath them like the dust bowl were depression years."

"we were one cell in the sea in the beginning and what we're made of was all the same once."

"I want a sunday kind of love."

"I need you like the dragonfly's wings need the wind."

and sooo many more ....

real estate

by far the most enjoyable band/album I've been listening to lately.

http://pitchfork.com/reviews/albums/13703-real-estate/

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A foil of that imagination,

the other one.

Less sought after.

Dirty truck stops.

Heavenly corners and crevices of town

Where homeless people lay their bodies.

Dust between the books

Housed on the 11th floor of the library.

One last stamped in 1978,

Almost chaste.

The chipping gray mortar keeping

Stones together

Like the prescriptions that taped up the tears in my mind.

fermentation of the mind

I would sit under the orangey lamp light

my feet tucked under me, 

perched on the stool most afternoons.

Pick at the edge of the bar, 

splinters coming from a fresh

table wound.

Someone must have thrashed at the

aged wood with their knife-

probably the same guy that held you up

tonight and took your wallet.

My eyes lost and distant, bore holes 

into each person that walked in.

People would flutter in and out of 

their conversations but

the only thing I could ever mutter

was "why are you here."

And I would ask myself the same question 

under my breath

on the whole walk home.

 

You might be waiting for me

at home by the hearth

glasses perched on your nose

looking at me with those eyes

that seemed to care,

but not enough to ask where I'd been. 

Or maybe you already knew.

short thoughts

build an alter to yourself

adorn it with pieces of your hair

a baby tooth

an old tube of chapstick 

the letters you wrote to those who would still be around

empty matchbooks

cigarette butts that had once kissed your lips

some stained clothes.

douse it in oil 

and send it towards the gods

in one all consuming flame.

there, now you are completed.